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Isabelle
and John Azzopardi
Photos by Paul Blandford |
We
never knew Miriam Hayman
By
Kurt Sansone
John Azzopardi has no qualms admitting that the Police Commissioner
now on indefinite leave - was a friend of his family.
"We
were friends, but George used the friendship to try and get to
my wife, Isabelle. He was the type who pushed himself on others,"
John explains.
The couple
say that George had tried on more than one occasion to make a
pass at Isabelle (her correct name). "Each time he tried
I refused him," Isabelle says, recalling the months of continuous
harassment.
George Grech declines interview
MaltaToday asked
George Grech for an interview. However, when contacted by
phone Mr Grech politely declined saying that what he has
to say he will do so in Court, "where it counts most."
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At this point
Isabelle reiterates her denial that there was ever a relationship
between her and George Grech.
I bring
up the issue of Magistrate Miriam Haymans alleged friendship
with the Azzopardis and Mr Grechs Constitutional application
in this regard.
Both Isabelle
and John deny ever knowing Magistrate Hayman before the beginning
of the inquiry. Isabelle says, "When I decided to take action
I could not go and report the attempted rape to the police because
they would not have believed me.
I went
to the law courts and lodged a report with the duty magistrate
who at the time happened to be Magistrate Hayman."
John says
that Magistrate Hayman was very hard on Isabelle during the inquiry.
"But I suppose she was doing her job. We only got to know
Magistrate Hayman through the inquiry," he insists.
What about
the alleged links they have with the criminal world?
John immediately
interjects, "They are complete hogwash." He stresses,
"I have never had any problems with the law and the poppy
seed incident George talked about in court concerned a bag
of bird seed that I had taken to Libya. I was never arrested or
detained."
Isabelle
is equally straightforward in her denial. "I worked as a
probation officer and to do so I had to have a clean criminal
record. Before I was given the go-ahead to work in the job, the
authorities investigated my background right back to Poland."
I ask Isabelle
for her reaction to George Grechs court testimony.
Isabelle
smiles and says that when she heard what Mr Grech had said in
open court she started to laugh. "Ironically, it was the
first time I laughed in months."
But why go
public now, I ask Isabelle.
"Many
people knew or suspected that we were the couple involved in all
this, but they still had their doubts. However, when our names
were made public and then my photo was published in In-Nazzjon
along with George Grechs court testimony, I had to make
a public statement. How can you stay quiet when somebody tries
to give you a bad name?" she retorts.
"I had
to clarify things and deny George Grechs claim that I had
a relationship with him. That was too much," Isabelle adds.
I turn to
John and ask him about his encounter with the Prime Minister.
He answers, "The Prime Minister was my only recourse at the
time. George was harassing my wife and affecting our relationship
and I had to put a stop to it."
The discussion
veers toward the couples relationship and Isabelle is the
first to speak.
"John
is very supportive of me. We have always confided in each other
and that is why he trusts me. I tell him everything. When I met
John for the first time I was still 16 years old and for me, he
is not only my husband but my lover, my friend and my confidant.
It is in my nature to confide in him."
When Isabelle
finishes speaking John gives her a hug and goes on to add that
despite all the torment they have been through they still have
a very close relationship. "We are a quiet fun-loving family
and have always protected our privacy. Unfortunately, what happened
has thrust us into the limelight."
The couple
have been married for 18 years and they have a teenage daughter.
Despite the
occasional tear, Isabelle comes out as a fighter. The ordeal has
made her mentally stronger but she recalls that the first few
months after the attempted rape she was in a terrible state.
"There
have been times when I thought of giving up. But I have become
stronger mentally. My family and friends have given me so much
support," she says. Isabelle continues, "The other day
I was in Valletta and a man, a complete stranger, stopped me and
encouraged me to continue with the case. I feel that people can
understand me."
Having known
that Isabelle studied psychology at University, I asked her whether
she found it easier to cope with the trauma. "Believe me,
no psychology can help you when such things happen to you. No
matter who you are or what you do."
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